Think about this:

''What you might call 'the bad experience', be sure there is a message in it for you, these are probably the most poignant and important ones in your life. If you chose to ignore it then you are not listening to what life has to offer to you, are you ... but that's how you find out who you really are ... by making the decisions that alter your life and this is not the easy part, being strong enough to let go and stand by them  ... nothing happens in life without taking a 'risk' and if you don't take it it is possible you 'risk' even more

'bad experience' ....
You have right now only one life
and only one chance to live it ..
go for it.''